Much has been made of the last book written by Rachel Hollis. The book, entitled, “Girl, Stop Apologizing!” has created a stir among Christian women. There is a deep divide between those who are moved by her words and those who are offended by her words. As I have not read the book, I will not offer my opinion. I do think that her book has clearly touched many women, and I think the why behind that is crucial to understand.
Here’s my theory, women are tired of apologizing for who they are and what they achieve. I think it strikes a chord with women because it is time to stop apologizing for doing and being who God called us to be. Not so that we can make much of ourselves, but also not to down play what God wants us to do.
For decades, probably centuries, most women have felt inferior. It is time that we live into our callings. We should be shining brightly so that others can see the Father. We need to stop cowering in fear that we might be successful and go where God wants us to go, and do what He wants us to do. It is time to stop apologizing for using the unique gifts and talents that He gave us and instead use them to the fullest potential. When we do this we allow others to see what an incredible God we serve, that He can work in us and through us, to accomplish great things.
This world is not about us. This life is not about making ourselves famous. It is also not designed to squash humans. A flower with no blooms is not cause to praise the gardener. In the same way, a daughter who hides her talents, brings no praise to the Father.
So be the best version of the person that God created. Use the gifts and talents that He gave to you. Bloom in the garden in which He places you.
Catherine says
Thank you! For someone who likes Rachel it’s been hard to see others say unkind things. She is called to be where she is and do what she is doing. She’s not equating living the best version of yourself with salvation. She encourages hard work, self-love, and striving for the dreams of your heart.
Her message and style do not resonate with everyone and that’s ok – but I don’t believe that makes her the devil or a danger. We could all use some encouragement to be our unique selves.